thoughts on men.

What is it these days with people trying to hook people up?

I just go to a friends house, wanting to hang out... just hang out...


and the next thing i know,
my friend is telling me how cute this guy is


and that i should be very interested

because most girls immediately like him...


weird.



i kinda just wish that i could be left alone..
im not sure what i'm looking for at the moment



well i know for sure who i do like

and what i want in my man

i just know


:)


and i will find him


but this single life is somewhat fun
for now.
we'll see, we'll see, we'll see.



here, i'll simply post what i'm attracted to and what i'm looking for in my man:
(no particular order--just as they pop into my head)
1. dark hair, dark skin
2. facial hair
3. some tattoos
4. goal orientated... definitely has to be going somewhere in this life.
5. loves loves LOVES to travel.
6. couple inches taller than me
7. hates drugs, but loves alcohol
8. smoking turns me on. (don't ask)
9. well educated, and artistic
10. loves good music. no techno crap please.
11. respectful, caring, kind
12. exotic, foreign
13. likes coffee, and good food!
14. non-religious
15. good morals.
16. wants children, someday.
17. somewhat of a mac nerd, but doesn't obsess over it.
18. can cook
19. athletic, but not a cocky jocky.
20. not overly outgoing, but definitely not shy.
21. likes the beatles, dave matthews, the shins
22. treat me like a princess.
23. doesn't want to work in an office, and wake up for the morning commute every morning for the rest of his life.
24. has hobbies
25. will not follow me everywhere, and give me space
26. will listen when i need him too
27. just accept me for who i am and not try to change me
28. dark eyes
29. loves live music, and just chillin
30. isn't really into the clubbing scene, but loves to dance